ENNEAGRAM TYPE FIVE
THE ULTIMATE GUIDE
Key Traits
The Centrality of Thinking: Fives relate to the world primarily through their thinking function.
Emotional Detachment: This tendency allows Fives to avoid uncomfortable emotions and the energy it would take to feel them.
Fear of Engulfment: This refers to a fear of being intruded upon or used up by others, which motivates Fives to avoid relationships.
Autonomy and Self-Sufficiency: This tendency allows Fives to maintain their withdrawal from others by not needing resources from them.
Hypersensitivity: Because Fives tend to protect themselves against emotions, they can have difficulty dealing with painful feelings.
This content is adapted from the below publications. Browse them here.
The Complete Enneagram: 27 Paths to Greater Self-Awareness by Beatrice Chestnut, PhD.; The 9 Types of Leadership: Mastering the Art of People in the 21st Century Workplace by Beatrice Chestnut, PhD.; [Forthcoming] The Enneagram Guide to Waking Up: Find your path, face your shadow, discover your true self by Beatrice Chestnut, PhD and Uranio Paes, MM.
OVERVIEW
Type Five represents the archetype of the person who withdraws into thinking and detaches from feeling as a way of taking refuge in the inner world. This functions as a way of finding privacy and freedom in a world that seems intrusive or neglectful or overwhelming. The central drive of this archetype is to find security by minimizing needs and using resources economically so that external demands can be limited and controlled. In Fives, the natural human need for people can be displaced into a thirst for knowledge, such that internal support comes through information and firm boundaries instead of social connections.
Type Fives are the prototype for that tendency in all of us to see ourselves as separate and disconnected from everything else, which causes us to feel the need to withdraw and hold on to whatever we have to survive. We all identify with our egos, and so can believe that we are isolated individuals rather than part of an interconnected whole, which leads us to become attached to the things we think we need to sustain ourselves.
In everyday life, this universal archetype may manifest in the need to have time alone to rest, or “recharge,” away from the prying eyes and emotional needs of others. It represents that part of us that would rather observe than participate and likes to withdraw periodically to a place of refuge. The Five archetype represents the model for preferring the relative safety of the intellect to the rigors of social and emotional life and sees knowledge as the most secure and satisfying form of power. In the face of conflict, difficulty, or hurt feelings, this stance sees withdrawal and distance as the best strategy.
Fives have analytical minds and tend to spend a lot of time pursuing their intellectual interests. They often possess a great deal of knowledge and expertise in particular areas of study. Because they automatically detach from emotions, they are highly skilled at performing rational, objective analyses of issues or situations. This habit also makes them calm in a crisis. As they appreciate the importance of boundaries in relationships, they value and respect others’ boundaries. While they typically don’t have a large quantity of close friends, they make high-quality, loyal, and trustworthy friends to the people with whom they do form relationships. Naturally austere and laconic, Fives are minimalistic and economical in the things they do, which reflects their concern with making the most of what resources they have and an ability to get by on limited supplies.
As with all the archetypal personalities, however, Type Fives’ gifts and strengths also represent their “fatal flaw” or “Achilles heel:” they can isolate themselves from others, feel inhibited in relationships, and be detached and withdrawn in social situations. While Fives excel at objective analysis, they can be overly analytical and unemotional to the point that it can be hard for them to connect with others. They maintain a calm demeanor, but may not be able to express themselves emotionally. 9ey may have too many or overly rigid boundaries and seem indi0erent or hard to reach. They may hold themselves back from social interactions out of a fear of having their energy depleted by social contact. However, if they can learn to balance their needs for time and space with greater openness to others and their own emotions, they can be dedicated friends and partners who display both a respect for the value of healthy separation and an ability to engage in wise and thoughtful ways.
Focus of Attention
Fives believe knowledge is power, so they like to observe what’s going on around them without getting too involved, especially emotionally. They focus on accumulating information about subjects that interest them and managing their time and energy, which they perceive as scarce, by avoiding entanglements with others.
THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS
Fives live in their heads and habitually detach from their emotions. They are sensitive to emotional demands being placed on them. They typically have a narrow range of feeling and almost never show their emotions in public.
BEHAVIOR PATTERNS
Fives are reserved and introverted, need a lot of time alone, and avoid interactions with people who (they fear) might deplete them. They are very analytical and objective, and they tend to spend a lot of time pursuing their intellectual interests.
BLIND SPOTS
the value of emotional engagement,
the value of connecting to others through personal disclosure,
relationships can enhance energy, not just deplete it,
and the access to abundant time, space, energy, and other resources.
THE PASSION IS AVARICE
For Fives, the central motivation of avarice is to hold onto what they have in light of an early experience of not getting much from others. Not having received enough love or care or responsiveness early on, Fives naturally fear being depleted, which leads to a defensive expectation of impoverishment.
WHEN BLIND SPOTS ARE INTEGRATED
balance intellectual analysis with being more connected to their emotional responses,
share more about themselves and create stronger bonds,
deepen relationships and enhance connection,
have more energy and inner resources through working against scarcity mentality.
THE VIRTUE IS NON-ATTACHMENT
In non-attachment, this type gladly opens up to feeling their emotions when others come close to them to give them attention and love. They feel energized by more ongoing contact with their own life force and live more fully with joy and less planning. They break away from the belief that their own energy is limited so they can give more to others without hoarding.
THE PATH FROM AVARICE TO NON-ATTACHMENT
The Type 5 paradox is experienced through the polarity between the passion of avarice and the virtue of non-attachment. For this type, recognizing how they disconnect from people, emotions, and life itself allows them to acknowledge a central aspect of their passion. They grow when they see the disparity between their bright, sophisticated minds and their childish, undeveloped hearts. When they can observe themselves hurting others by being cold and detached from their emotions, they learn to recognize their avarice.
TYPE five SUBTYPES
SELF-PRESERVATION five:
castle
The Self-Preservation Five expresses avarice through a focus on boundaries—a need to be “encastled” in a sanctuary where they feel protected from intrusion and have control over their boundaries. SP Fives have a passion for being able to hide behind walls and know that they have everything they need to survive within those walls. They are the least expressive of the three Fives and they try to limit their needs and wants so that they can avoid being dependent on others.
SOCIAL five:
totem
The Social Five expresses avarice through a need for “super-ideals,” relating to others with common interests through knowledge and shared values (rather than emotional connection). In this Five, avarice is connected to knowledge. Needs for people and for the sustenance that relationships provide get channeled into a thirst for information. “Totem” refers to a passion for high ideals, the need to idealize experts and seek knowledge connected to whatever ultimate values this Five adheres to. Social Fives engage in a search for the ultimate meaning to avoid experiencing life as meaningless.
SEXUAL five:
confidence
The Countertype
Sexual Fives express avarice through a search for ideal exemplars of absolute love. This is a Five with a romantic streak. the name reflects their need to find a partner who fulfills an ideal of trust. The most emotionally sensitive of the Fives, they suffer more, resemble Type Four more, and have more overt desires. They have a vibrant inner life that may be expressed through artistic creation but are still cut off from others in many ways.
GROWTH PATH
For Type 5s, the key to embracing their true selves lies in gradually reducing their need to be in control of others’ movements either toward or away from them. This may seem difficult, if not impossible for them because their ego tells them not to open the gates to their domain. But facing their Shadow and their pain means rising above their self-limiting de4nitions of the past and achieving a higher degree of self-knowledge and self-respect, as well as a wider vision of who they are.
When this type realizes that they have actually been missing deeper and freer connections for much of their life, they can focus all their intention and attention on exchanging ideas, feelings, and sensations with others. It is only through fully engaging in the experience of connection that they can develop their true selves and understand the mysteries of being human, living life, and being part of the universe. When they take in this truth, they blossom and make themselves available to others with a profound spirit of generosity. And this brings them closer to their true selves.
wings and arrows
In using the Enneagram to further growth, as it is intended, the first steps involve observing yourself to make the patterns and habits associated with your main, or “core,” type more conscious.
After you have done this for a while, you can create further growth shifts by using the wings and arrows as pathways for growth.
The Enneagram’s arrow lines point in the direction of each type’s specific path of psychological and spiritual growth and away from important characteristics and experiences we had to repress in childhood (but periodically return to for a sense of security). These connection points indicated by the Enneagram diagram help us see how we can aim to embody the higher aspects of these two specific points to further our inner journey: the point ahead of our core point represents key challenges we need to master to become more whole and the point behind our core type along the arrow lines represents issues from the past that we need to re-integrate such that we can reclaim what we disowned in childhood to ground and support our forward movement along the path indicated by the arrows.
moving back to type 8
The path of growth for Type Fives calls for them to reclaim their ability to engage more actively, more fearlessly, and more powerfully in the world. The Eight Point can be a place of comfort for Fives who allow themselves more freedom to assert themselves and enforce the boundaries they need. The Eight archetype may also represent what didn’t work for Fives in their early environment. Fives’ early impulses to act in direct ways to get what they needed—the Eight-ish strategy of self-assertion—may not have been seen or supported in childhood, and they may have retreated when force didn’t work. However, the Eight experience likely continued to be a place Fives moved to after childhood to find comfort in feeling free to act in powerful ways to protect themselves, erect walls, or push people away.
Navigated consciously, Fives can use the “move to Eight” developmentally—to re-establish a healthy balance between withdrawing and moving out into the world. Fives can focus on the qualities and high-side traits of this “child-heart” point to understand what they may have needed to repress to get along in the world, and what they can usefully reintegrate to support their growth toward the Seven Point.
Moving back to Eight with awareness can thus be a way for Fives to reengage with their lost sense of their power and authority, a way for them to feel more strength in dealing with fear, engaging with their emotions, and interacting with others. Fives can support themselves in their self-work and expansion by consciously calling on the gifts Eights have in expressing anger in productive ways, making big things happen, and asserting themselves to impact people in positive ways. Instead of always having to survey what’s happening from a safe distance and think before doing anything, they can act more decisively in the world.
By reincorporating Type Eight attributes, Fives can consciously remind themselves that it’s okay to own your authority, express yourself more powerfully, and use strength to both make boundaries and open up to the vulnerability entailed in sharing yourself more with other people. Through owning these Eight abilities, Fives can heal any childhood hurts associated with having to hide out instead of express themselves more powerfully, and they can draw on a more present sense of their own authority to support the challenges entailed in embodying more of the idealism, optimism, and possibilities for expansion associated with the Seven Point.
moving ahead to type 7
The Inner Flow growth path for Type Fives brings them into direct contact with the challenges embodied in Type Seven: using levity, sincere intellectual interest, innovative thinking, and creative options as a way of interacting more directly with the outside world. Consciously drawing on the natural strengths of the Seven archetype can help Fives see how they can engage more fully with others without having to disappear. While Fives can move to the Seven Point in times of stress, causing them to act out their nervousness in social situations through anxious laughter or a manic way of talking, they can work to ease this tension with awareness by consciously embodying aspects of the high side of Seven. Fives can expand their ability to share more of themselves with others by intentionally using humor, playfulness, and intellectual curiosity to help them to manage any anxiety they might feel when opening up more socially.
The Five working consciously in this way can make ready use of the tools healthy Type Sevens use: creative thinking and an interest in people in support of an engaged focus on interacting more deeply with others. The Seven stance has a basis in generating options as a way of seeing different ways of dealing with situations, even in the midst of underlying anxiety. The mental habits of finding connections and enthusiastically participating in the exchange of ideas can provide a good model for Fives seeking to expand their comfort zone by sharing more of themselves with others. The quick and agile way of thinking Sevens use to connect their feelings and ideas with those of others can support Fives in finding more ways to link up their own ideas and emotions more with the outside world.
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